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My husband lied about child support what should i do?
By admin | December 4, 2009
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Me and my husband are just recently married 8months ago and I am 7months pregnant with his son. I just found out a week ago that my husbands been paying child support for a year now. Now what bothers me is that he lied to me about it for 6months, he told me that it was his insurance premiums being taking out and he also told me months before we got married that he took a DNA test and the baby turn out not to be his so they stopped child support enforcement. I am not sure on how i am suppose to feel about this, i mean he lied to me our whole marriage and now I am pregnant with a child that he cant even afford because they are taking so much out his check. I was really hurt by this, and thinking about divorce is that too extreme? I mean he lied multiple times and i don’t reckon i can trust him like i did before. he betrayed my trust in a huge way i feel. what do y’all reckon?
he told me this child isn’t his he has never seen him and has far back as his 2006 paycheck stubs there is childsupport being taken out. He says they cut him a check once the kid came back not his but I don’t know his is he claims not to remember when all that happened and claims he can’t find the paper with the results of the DNA test done. I am just so sick of being lied to, it is so simple to tell the truth especially about something that is beyond his control, and even if I did vlow up easily he lied to me from the beginning day 1 of me knowing him.
he told me that it was insurance and he was going to cancel it so that’s why I didn’t reckon twice about getting pregnant, it was one lie after the other and I fed into it.
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December 4th, 2009 at 12:17 am
I would leave him. Not only did he lie to you and betray you, but he’s also not being a father to that child. Does he even see the kid? What kind of man is that? It might be hard to leave while you’re pregnant, but you should get out now before it gets worse.